There is More than One Way to Kill a Man

...and I have "killed" many men many times, and there's a really good chance that you have too.

No, this isn't some religious version of a Cypress Hill song, just a blog post about how deep the Ten Commandments go. One of the Ten Commandments states that we shall not kill, but Jesus reminds us that anyone that hates his brother or calls him a fool is also subject to judgement. That means if we harm our brother physically or otherwise, play a vicious practical joke, talk trash behind his back, or  "teach him a lesson" when we're really trying to be superior, we're just as sinful as if we have killed him (or her of course), and we need to repent for it.

Pretty deep, isn't it? How many times have you or I said something ill about someone else - today?

Hearing about this during Mass really made me think about how often I try to make myself look better by talking about someone else, or make some kind of sarcastic remark that hits a little too close to home, in front of other people? I realized that I am so often guilty of this sin that it spoke to me during Mass more than the passage that says if I even think about a woman in a lustful way I have already committed adultery (a whole other topic).

Regular confession certainly helps, but I believe that this practice of "killing" our neighbor takes a lot more prayer and meditation if we are to actually be rid of this sin. It is possible - I have met many people that apparently have more respect for their fellow man than I do, and I wish that I could be like them.

This is why the one thing at Mass idea is so I have something that I can meditate on all week. Every prayer I offer includes the one thing. Any time I have to be quiet, I listen for the Lord to tell me how I can improve on this one thing in my life. I probably won't be completely stop tearing down my brother for selfish reasons, but I haven't spent an entire week meditating on the subject before, so I'm sure to make an improvement.

If you believe that you could make the same improvement yourself, try meditating on this subject every day for a week. Ask God how you can keep from "killing" your neighbor today and the next. Who knows? Maybe other people will stop "killing" you while you're not looking as well.